Kinky and Curious - BS'ing with Barak & Sheba

It’s that time again, time for another episode of BS'ing with Barak & Sheba! This time, we are podcasting from the Couch! We have the Dave (a small Ikea table) set up, and are relaxing with the cats and coffee. Why not curl up and talk about kink! Check it out as we answer these Kinky Questions -

1. How to introduce kink to a SO, and suggestions on how to do it without being hurtful or offensive?

2. How to check out someone's Fetlife Profile and what red flags we look for...

3. How to deal with the conflicting emotions and guilt of spanking or being spanked!

We also talk about Wicked Tickets; Galleria Domain; Beyond the Love Keynotingl; how to Bejazzel your Va-Ja-Jay; The upcoming December Meet n Greet, and the The AIS Seasons Beatings Party! How did Sheba's shoes turn on her? What can the cats do with opposable thumbs? More about the CosmoPOLYtan 12; What drives Barak crazy about Slashy/speak? Can we get Sheba on a Segue? Where will all the EA Podcasters be at once? We talk about these things and more!

 

Plus - tickets for the BIGGEST AIS Event ever - Winter Wickedness 2014 are going fast!

 

Twistedly,

 

Barak & Sheba

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It’s that time again, time for another episode of BS'ing with Barak & Sheba! This time, we are podcasting for in the morning! Yes, it's been crazy busy this time of year, getting registration open for Winter Wickedness Check it out as we answer these Kinky Questions -

 

1. What Should I expect at a big kink event, like Winter Wickedness

2. Sheba, tell me about what it is like to switch?

3. How about some advice for playing in public?

 

We also talk about Winter Wickedness; The Poo-Poo Platter of Kink; how much of a Brat Sheba is; The upcoming November Meet n Greet; What the heck is Beyond the Love; who are the keynote speakers, and how do you get there? Why is the Cock & Pussy test just like Toucan Sam? What our first event like? Why we have meat at the events? We talk about these things and more!

 

Then on the Video version of Kinky & Curious Podcast, we answer the question - Subspace - What is it and how do I get there? Check it out!

Last Chance for Beyond the Love Tickets! Join us for Central Ohio’s first polyamory conference - just 2 weeks away!!

 

Twistedly,

 

Barak & Sheba

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It’s that time again, time for another episode of BS'ing with Barak & Sheba! This time, we are podcasting for The girl’s birthday! Is it time for some birthday spankings? We have a small group gathering after the birthday dinner, and are talking about kink! Check it out as we answer these Kinky Questions -

 

1. Can you please tell me a little about how to figure out my Power Exchange, without making my Dom feel that I am being too challenging.

2. My question is in regard to sub space.

3. I am currently struggling to categorize myself in one single category. I like to hurt people, but I love being hurt. I don't like to be in control in most situations, but I am not sure if I want people controlling me. Any help or guidance on what I am and how to be a happy resident of the Kink community?

 

We also talk about COPE; Taking a break for a week or so; The big Wicked reveal! The upcoming October Meet n Greet, and the The AIS One Night Party! What the heck is Beyond the Love, who are the keynote speakers, and how do you get there? What do spankings sound like on an audio podcast; What makes dawn swoon; How a couple s-types feel about service; We talk about these things and more!

 

Plus - tickets for Beyond the love Central Ohio’s first polyamory conference are going fast!!

 

Twistedly,

 

Barak & Sheba

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It's time!  You know you want to hear what's gonna happen next... On this month’s BS'ing,we are podcasting with the right before COPE!   Yes we are in high gear for COPE... and talk about some of the things we will be doing prior to it!  

Questions this time around include 

1. What if your partner can only orgasm once?  Can that still be used in orgasm domination and D/S? 

2. Can you "fake" being vanilla?  Should you?

3. What's that one thing we would advise people entering a M/S or D/S relationship?

We also talk about The Floating World; How much fun we had at GLEE; When orgams is a mutually beneficial arrangement; Hints at what be happening at Wicked; Will there be a Main group Meet n Greet in Sept?  When was Barak's birthday?  Is the Yeti insertable?  Sheba the size queen... We talk about these things and more!    

Check it out and let us know what you think!  

 

Twistedly, 
Barak & Sheba

For more fun AIS Stuff?  You can catch it all between these addresses:

AIS Website http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org

AIS on Fetlife http://www.fetlife.com/groups/1913

Twitter http://twitter.com/ais_org

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On this month’s BS'ing we are podcasting with the Yeti! Yes, it's new microphone testing time. 

This week, we answer these Kinky Questions for Newer people -

1. My Partner and I filled out our Kink Lists, and they are totally different! How do we fix this impasse? or can we?

2. What kinds of toys and equipment should I have when I am brand new? What about pervertables, and making my own?

3. Any Advice for someone whose partner just asked if the other wants to dominate them?

 

We also talk about Play Poly; How to find the "Hot" and still "Bring it home Hot;" Can a pre-existing couple suddenly develop a power exchange? Does Barak's love of Broadway Musicals make him Gay? Omnisexual? or Metrosexual? How to break down a fetish or a kink into it's root or essential part? How does Douglas Kent's The Better Built Bondage Book fit into all this? Where do floggers and Cat o' nine tails really come from? We talk about these things and more!

 

 

Check it out and let us know what you think! 

 

Twistedly,

 

Barak & Sheba

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On this month’s BS'ing we are doing the podcast mash! We are audioand video podcasting at the same time! Check out the BSing Video Podcast here -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YusJ7ZjaQMo

as we answer these Kinky Questions for Newer people, such as…


1. My partner wants to be spanked. What should I do?
2. Top, Bottom, Dom, Sub... Labels in kink and what do they mean?
3. How to get out of the basement and into the Kink Community.

 

Then, listen in to the audio podcast to hear these questions, what kinda fun was happening behind the scenes of video, and the BS’ing in between - like what we mean when we talk about the "Podcast Mash;" How many "Borks" are there on the audio podcast? How many times in the 30 min podcast we say "Actually," and "Absolutely." - Perhaps you can make a drinking game out of it?


We also talk about Sheba's desire for a clapboard; Is there a difference between fucker and fuckee? Does giving oral sex make you a top? Is it a mutual beneficial arrangement or mutual assured destruction? Is there such thing as a Dominant Submissive, or is it just a Submissive Bottom? We talk about these things and more!


Check it out and let us know what you think! 

BSing with Barak & Sheba

 

 

Twistedly,
Barak & Sheba

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On this month’s BS'ing, we are podcasting from the 'Burbs.  Listen in as we get behind the mics to tackle all sorts of fun and kinky topics, like:

What is happening with COPE Sales?  What you wish you were told before going to your first play party?  What are the keys to a great scene?  How do you keep a scene moving, or should it stop all of a sudden?  What let's you know that the scene was great and satisfying for everyone?  and What being a Kink Presenter is all about!

 

We also talk about Sheba the Dirty Girl, Barak the house slave, Why did Barak & Sheba become presenters?  What are those lower abdominal muscles called?  Why don't we play to the crowd?  Is it ok to stop and watch?  Looking into the eyes of mutual assured destruction...   We talk about these things and more!    

 
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On this month’s BS'ing, it's the first episode from the Haven in the 'Burbs!  Look out all you denizens of the mini-vans; all you soccer moms and football dads, Barak & Sheba are in your locale. What are we talking about this time?  Listen in as we get behind the mics to tackle all sorts of fun and kinky topics, like:

  • Sheba and Boy Cum?  
  • The weekend quote, "Beer?  It's 8 o'clock in the morning! Scotch?"  
  • Barak does a movie review.  
  • Bob from Enzyte has 4 hour erection?   Does this seem strange to you? 
  • What is a My Fiamae?  
  • Why does there always have to be a power exchange?
  • What does it take to freak out the girl?  
  • The Latest UberDom sighting. 
  • Is Sheba picking out clothes a Dominant or a Submissive act?  
  • You might be a Submissive if... 
  • Do I have to learn to be a submissive if I love someone who wants to be a Master?
  • Is Sheba really Barak's Dominant?  Does that mean we have to use lower case for his name? 
  • Does doing good mean you are into service?  
  • Can two Dominants play?

  • Plus so much more!!    

Check it out and let us know what you think!  

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On this month’s BS'ing, Barak & Sheba are podcasting from Kinkfest!  While they were presenting at Portland, Oregon's finest annual event, they took a little time out to get behind the mics!   What are they talking about this time?  Listen in as they address several new topics, like:

~ Is our relationship always good?  

~ What were they presenting at Kinkfest, and how much fun was that?  Did they go to Voodoo Doughnuts and why is the magic in the hole?  

~ How does Sheba go from being a strong woman that doesn't let anyone tell her what to do, to switching it up in the scene and in the bedroom?  

~ What are the keys to long term relationships?

They also talk about strip clubs in Portland, and why they would eat steak at one;the perils of jet lag on Kink Presenting; what happens when Sheba shuts the lights off during the podcast! 

Plus... The upcoming AIS April Meet N Greet; the resurrection of the DRT - The D-type round table; the AIS Big Bash in May, and much more!!

 Check it out and let us know what you think!  

Twistedly, 

Barak & Sheba

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This month’s BS'ing is our last podcast in the Fortress of Solitude!  Next month, we will be moving to a super secret location on the northeast side of Columbus.  What are we talking about this time?  Listen in as we get behind the mics to tackle all sorts of fun and kinky topics, like:
Why can't "No" or "Stop" be a safeword?  What are the keys to a great scene?  How do you keep a scene moving, or should it stop all of a sudden?  What let's you know that the scene was great and satisfying for everyone?  Is it an Orgasm?  It is great chocolate?  Is their steak and lobster involved?  And finally - How out should you be?  Does it matter?  What about your (and their) comfort level?
We also talk about the girl under the table; changing direction mid-stream ... or is that mid-scene; how do we handle the big triple 8; how does Ronco fit in to all of this; and finally did AIS hire DJ Grandpa to spin the turntables...   We talk about these things and more!    
Check it out and let us know what you think!  

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